I don’t let my husband have anal with me it hurts alot but of course he loves it and I’d like to please him in that way how can I prepare my body for lack of better words to give him that? A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack. and weirdly felt a closeness to my husband and a calm over myself like I was spanked into a rejuvenation! Along with “pushing buttons” and the Goldilocks syndrome of not too hard or not too soft, but just right, these are classic female characteristics more easily recognized by anyone coming of age before the 1970s as perfectly normal in a healthy woman.

Ignored is the fact that age is not a significant factor in determining the effectiveness of an age appropriate spanking at any stage in a female’s life.

Then, most things I learned about spanking the fairer sex I actually leaned from listening to women. Among other things, it can create a love triangle that not only turns two former friends into enemies, but also leaves you with neither of them. For the most part these days, boys never seen a girl have to bring her mother the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch.

A good spanking can help with the hormones a LOT and also change my mood from sad and resentful to super snuggly, appreciative, and sexually insatiable. It also opened the door for my then girlfriend to tell my future mother-in-law that that her boyfriend had spanked her for lying to him. In the early 21st century, thanks in part to domestic violence laws and no-fault divorce, families have become more fragmented and less stable as divorce became more socially acceptable than spanking. Also, in the end, whatever problems you are having with your current boyfriend will ultimately have to be worked out between the two of you.

Little did I realize at the time that, despite my wife’s strong-willed disposition, I was her father as the authority figure in her life before we married.

I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. Although her mother knew perfectly well where we were headed, neither my wife nor I fully appreciated how my spanking her put us on the fast track to marriage. Trigger mature adult content, graphic erotic content, anal sex, anal play, shower scene sex, over the knee spanking, bare bottom spanking, spanking with paddle, rough sex, thin on plot, high on steam.Also, as the previous sentences suggests, don’t be afraid to “talk dirty” to your boyfriend about spanking. I mean, all of us have a long intense intimate conversation that felt deeply sexual to us – and on the other hand, we have had intercourse that didn’t feel terribly sexual. BTW, when you do something wrong, be the leader, own up to it, and correct it without anyone telling you.

With over 100 comments, so many people have stopped by and shared their experiences in spanking and their relationships in general, so I wanted to select and highlight some of them. One thing that does is make sure she is aware of my leadership all the time, and is regularly checking with me as the authority. Should I have him talk to my baby father since they are friends and have him explain how smooth our relationship went when it was filled up rules and punishment? Once reason was that the connection between spanking and misbehavior was more well established than it is these days.If he ever spanked my mother I am not aware, but I am aware that my mother is always respectful to him and is a “well behaved” wife. While not necessarily as widespread as some might believe, the practice of over the lap disciplining of a difficult female was so accepted that my wife and I discussed it fairly early in our dating relationship. Nothing here should be interpreted as advocating any non-consensual spanking activity or the spanking of minors. She told me several years later that she liked me to take her panties down as she felt that I was in control and not her in having to bare her bottom. I finally got him to not be afraid hit hard but I’d be bruised up to bad for him and he end up stopping before it even affected me.